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Play Party Overview
A play party is a vibrant, immersive gathering that invites participants to explore sensuality and connection within a safe, consensual environment. It often features an array of themes, ranging from whimsical to exotic, encouraging guests to express themselves authentically through creative attire, role-play, and adventurous interaction. With carefully curated music, lighting, and decor, the atmosphere is designed to evoke a sense of curiosity and liberation. At its core, a play party is a celebration of trust, consent, and the exploration of one's desires in the company of like-minded individuals.

Cultivating the Experience
The structure of a play party varies, often including spaces for socializing, dancing, and intimate play zones, each offering distinct experiences tailored to the theme. Hosts and volunteers play a crucial role in ensuring the environment remains respectful, inclusive, and supportive. Attendees are encouraged to communicate openly about their boundaries, preferences, and interests, whether engaging in conversation or exploring more intimate connections. Respect for one another's boundaries is paramount, creating a sanctuary where everyone can participate freely and joyfully, without pressure or expectation.

A Little About Consent

Affirmative Consent: Consent must be explicit, informed, and enthusiastic. Always seek a clear "Yes" before engaging in any activity, and respect any "No" without question. We support both FRIES and CRISP consent philosophies.
Ongoing Communication: Consent is an ongoing conversation. Check in regularly to ensure all parties are comfortable and engaged.
Boundaries and Limits: Clearly communicate your boundaries and limits, and respect those of others. Never assume what others might be comfortable with.
Revocable Consent: Consent can be withdrawn at any moment, for any reason. If someone withdraws their consent, stop immediately.
Safe Spaces: Designated safe spaces are available if you need a break from the action. Signal a staff member if you need to get some space. We got you.
Intoxication and Consent: If you are visibly intoxicated you will be removed from the space. There is zero tolerance for opportunists who seek consent while the other party has impaired judgment.
No Harassment or Coercion: Bullying, manipulation, shaming, or any form of coercion is strictly prohibited. Everyone deserves to feel safe and respected.
Confidentiality: Respect the privacy of others by not sharing personally identifying information or details of the event without permission. Everyone here is nobody.
Responsible Hygiene: Practice good personal hygiene and ensure that you are healthy before attending. Follow any event-specific health protocols. If you’re sick, ask for a refund.
Feedback and Accountability: Participants are encouraged to provide feedback and report concerns to the organizers during or after the event.

Community Values

Consent. Explored above. Our FRIES are always CRISPy!
Authentic Connection. We’re creating spaces to make lasting friendships and relationships, to be vulnerable, to be open, to drop your guard, to feel safe and excited to do so, and to be met on that level. Let’s make friends, and if we are intimate with our friends, awesome! We prioritize real connection over transactional swapping. It’s not a swingers club.
Respect & Communication. Treat others with respect. Strive for open, honest, nonviolent communication. Awareness of people’s space, and compassion for their feelings is a shared responsibility. Be polite when declining an offer. When receiving a no, don’t ask why, and don’t persist. If someone shares an STD status that changes your boundaries, state your revised boundaries lovingly. Shaming of any kind is not acceptable.
Safety. New community members are screened through video calls and reference checks with mutual connections. All guests are responsible for the actions of people that they invite. Anyone that is visibly intoxicated will be asked to leave. Phones are not allowed to be out for any reason at any time beyond the ticketing booth - if you want to get someone’s number, please do so downstairs. Do not share the names of attendees with anyone outside the event.

Vibe Concepts

The Space. Our whimsical and playful events offer a range of performances and music to enjoy. It’s an artful space to explore and connect. Designated Play Space will be visually separated from non-play spaces. In our common space you’re welcome to keep it cuddly, fun, and flirty, but save the sex acts for the designated play space.
Attire. Style is the answer to everything. The theme makes the dream come alive. Show up classy and keep it proper. We believe in you.
Kink Play. Our space needs to remain welcoming to people who are new to the scene. Blood, scat, and extreme impact play are PROHIBITED at our events. Consensual non-consent scenes create confusion for our guests and staff. If a staff member or a guest perceives a non-consensual act we are obligated to enforce our consent policy consistently. Please be mindful of this and talk to a staff member if you are unsure.
It’s all “Ours”. Our space is for everybody. It’s a sex positive environment with high possibilities and low expectations.